{"id":418,"date":"2025-05-22T11:30:59","date_gmt":"2025-05-22T03:30:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tertib.press\/blog\/?p=418"},"modified":"2025-05-22T11:33:29","modified_gmt":"2025-05-22T03:33:29","slug":"manners-faith-character","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tertib.press\/blog\/manners-faith-character\/","title":{"rendered":"It Starts With the Heart: Manners, Faith & Character"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

\u201cManners maketh man.\u201d <\/strong>It\u2019s a phrase we hear so often, but have we ever paused to wonder where good manners truly begin? To embody kindness, humility, and patience, one must first start from within\u2014from the state of our hearts, our intentions, and the sincerity of our faith. At \u201cThe Faith Conference\u201d we supported recently, this powerful message echoed through every session. Over two enlightening days, we were reminded that Islam isn\u2019t just about rituals. It\u2019s about character. And character starts with the heart.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This past weekend, Tertib Publishing had the pleasure of being part of \u201cThe Faith Conference\u201d, a gathering of seekers, believers, and learners featuring beloved speakers like Mufti Menk<\/strong>, Dr. Muhammad Salah<\/strong>, and Shaykh Wael Ibrahim<\/strong>. From powerful reminders about sincerity and inner healing to thought-provoking lessons on how manners complete our faith, the conference reminded us what it truly means to live as a believer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As always, our goal at Tertib Publishing isn\u2019t just to sell books; it\u2019s to connect hearts to knowledge<\/strong>. So, here we are, sharing highlights of the events for those who missed it or want to relive those moments of clarity and calm once more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Day 1: Serene Soul<\/strong><\/h3><\/div>\n\n\n\n

On the first day, the speakers delved deep into the spiritual reality of the heart. Citing a hadith<\/em>: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

An-Nu’man bin Bashir (r.a.) reported:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Prophet Muhammad (s.a.w.) said, \u201cVerily, there is a piece of flesh in the body, if it is healthy, the whole body is healthy, and if it is corrupt, the whole body is corrupt. Verily, it is the heart.”<\/em>
(Riyad as-Salihin 587)<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, in today\u2019s world, the heart is constantly exposed to trials and temptations. Each slip, each moment of neglect. Leaves a mark, a black dot, on the heart, dimming the light of our faith. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We were reminded that there\u2019s no point in bragging about our ibadah<\/em> if we don\u2019t know whether they\u2019re accepted. We may have prayed, fasted, or even gone for Hajj multiple times. But only Allah (s.w.t.) knows what was truly sincere. And in the end, sincerity is the heart\u2019s domain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

True transformation begins when we consistently seek Allah\u2019s (s.w.t.) forgiveness, not just for ourselves, but for our families too<\/strong>. The session urged us to return to Allah (s.w.t.) when we feel lost because His mercy always outweighs our sins. Sometimes we felt like our sins were too much, too unbearable to be forgiven. But Mufti Menk highlighted an ayah<\/em> from Surah Az-Zumar:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Say, O Prophet, that Allah says, \u201cO My servants who have exceeded the limits against their souls! Do not lose hope in Allah\u2019s mercy, for Allah certainly forgives all sins. He is indeed the All-Forgiving, Most Merciful.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Surah Az-Zumar, 39:53)<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Even in dealing with others, the heart plays a crucial role. Holding onto grudges and hatred? That\u2019s where the real battle lies. Purifying the heart from jealousy, resentment, and toxic relationships takes more strength than many outward acts of worship. Some people are so toxic that it is better for us to keep our distance from them. But remember to do so with grace.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Above all, sincerity, hope, and belief in Allah\u2019s (s.w.t.) mercy were emphasised. Even if you\u2019ve faltered, never despair. Return to Him with remorse, without justification.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Day 2: Manners Matter <\/strong><\/h3><\/div>\n\n\n\n

If Day 1 taught us to cleanse and nourish our hearts and souls, Day 2 showed us how that inner light must reflect outwardly. Faith, when perfected, shows in one\u2019s character. The Prophet Muhammad (s.a.w.) wasn\u2019t chosen because of status or wealth but because of his character. His trustworthiness, his compassion, his humility. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Shaykh Wael Ibrahim reminded us that Islam begins with belief, but it doesn\u2019t end there. Belief leads to action, and action shapes character. And that character will show through our interactions with others\u2014through honesty, modesty, kindness and dignity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You cannot have terrible manners and claim strong worship. Nor can you perfect your ibadah but mistreat others. <\/strong>A simple example? Backbiting. Even if what we say is true, if it would hurt the person, it\u2019s still backbiting. And with every hurtful word, we risk losing our good deeds. That\u2019s how easily we can slip. But we were also reminded of the hope in Islam. Sometimes, when you\u2019re at your lowest, a single act of kindness can erase your entire history of sins.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Islam beautifully balances acts of worship and acts of kindness. Salah<\/em> and fasting benefit us. But helping others, giving charity, and feeding the poor? Those deeds have extended benefits. They please Allah (s.w.t.) and uplift our communities. That\u2019s why extended acts of goodness hold such weight in His sight. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This session served as a much-needed reset. Because in the noise of daily life, it\u2019s easy to think of ibadah<\/em> only as rituals. But Islam is holistic. It shapes how we treat people, how we handle conflict, and how we purify our inner world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Thank You for Visiting Us<\/strong><\/h3><\/div>\n\n\n\n

We at Tertib Publishing were truly honoured to be part of this impactful event. Thank you to everyone who visited our booth, supported us, and brought home books to nurture both heart and mind. Whether you came for our exclusive discounts, book signings, or just a kind conversation, your presence meant the world to us<\/em><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Missed Out? Catch Us Next at PBAKL 2025!<\/strong><\/h3><\/div>\n\n\n\n

Missed out on the chance to grab the speakers\u2019 books last weekend? Don\u2019t worry! You can still get them this week at our booth at the Pesta Buku Antarabangsa Kuala Lumpur (PBAKL) 2025<\/strong> starting this Friday! Come say hi, browse our latest titles, and enjoy exclusive event promos on books that\u2019ll stay with you, just like the lessons we took home from \u201cThe Faith Conference\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

See you there!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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